Month: June 2024

Whether you’re looking for love online or enlisting the services of a dating agency, one thing is certain, your profile needs to be written perfectly. After all, that is the first glimpse that a potential love interest is going to get into who you are. And we all know that first impressions matter. 

It is becoming increasingly apparent that both men and women are deterred from dating a person if their messages and profiles are riddled with slang, bad grammar, and spelling mistakes. And quite often the most common errors that put people off are the simple ones. Using ‘your’ instead of ‘you’re,’ and improper use of ‘there,’ ‘they’re’ and ‘their,’ are among the most common annoyances when it comes to dating. The biggest ick however, comes down to poor grammar or text speak in text messages. While they are designed to be quick, that doesn’t mean that you should write things like ‘u r’ instead of ‘you are,’ as it gives the impression that the recipient is not worth the effort. 

Have you ever considered that perhaps your spelling and grammar are playing a part in your failing chances of a fairytale forever after? 

For most people, improper use of grammar and misspelling of words is often perceived as sluggish, lazy, inexperienced, and unattractive. Since evolving from meeting in bars to embracing the culture of matchmaking, the key thing to remember is that the first impression a person will have of you is which words you use and how you use them. Your words say a lot about you as a person, therefore it’s important that you take your time to present yourself in the best possible way. 

Let’s consider things differently. When getting ready for a date night, you take the time to get ready and choose an outfit that flatters you and makes you feel amazing. You wouldn’t throw on your Sunday lounge suit to meet a romantic interest because you want to look and feel like the best version of yourself. Similarly, proper grammar helps you express yourself with elegance and clarity. It shows that you are eloquent, sophisticated, intelligent, and self-aware. It’s a way to showcase yourself on the highest pedestal and truly stand out from the crowd.

That said, there are simple tricks that you can bear in mind that will ensure your dating profile and messages portray you in the best possible light.

1-     Proofread. It’s not necessary to rush anything that you publish or send. Take a moment, read what you have written, and make corrections before committing. Those few extra moments aren’t going to put someone off, but a gibberish message might!

2-    Spellcheck. Thankfully, most devices have a spellcheck built in these days, making spotting incorrect spellings easy to pick up and a quick fix. Always run a spell check if you can, but be sure to use correct English, as using US English spelling when you’re not American can be perceived as bad spelling.

3-     Utilise the internet. When it comes to writing your profile take the time to make sure it is right before publishing. With a plethora of online tools like Grammarly dedicated to perfecting your writing at the click of a button, it is easy to ensure that your profile is error-free.

If spelling and grammar simply aren’t your forte, fear not, we have you covered. We have a team of professionals on hand to create an outstanding and error-free dating profile for you. All you have to do is answer a few questions about your lifestyle, goals, and aspirations in your meeting with your matchmaker and then leave the creation in our hands.

While a perfectly punctuated profile may not be the sole determinant of your romantic success, it will undoubtedly contribute to making an everlasting positive first impression. 

Here at Ignite Dating, your dedicated matchmaker will be with you every step of the way, working with you to highlight what is important for you. From the first meeting through to your blossoming relationship, they are always on hand to ensure your dating experience is as streamlined as possible, leaving you to embrace and enjoy the process every time you meet someone new. Get in touch with our team of dating experts today to find out more about how we can help you with every element of your dating journey. 

In May, our Managing Director and Founder, Michelle Begy, and International Matchmaker, Ellie Harrison, headed to New York for the Global Love Conference – an annual event organised by the Global Love Institute to bring together experts in the dating industry. 

Surrounded by over 120 other professionals from all aspects of the dating industry, the team had a packed two days filled with insightful discussions and meaningful connections where they were able to network, collaborate, exchange knowledge, and acquire valuable insights into the latest trends, strategies, and best practices in the dating industry right now. 

With speaker sessions on a range of topics including psychological theories behind attraction, lessons in international matchmaking, the art of ethical collaboration and the art of styling a client for relationship success amongst many more, there was plenty of alignment with the ethical and client-focused approach that Ignite Dating prides itself on. 

The post-conference party, graciously hosted by the lovely Bonnie Winston was definitely among the highlights of the trip. Bonnie’s ongoing support for the conference is well-known and this year’s party was a testament to her commitment to not only the Global Love Conference but also the dating industry as a whole. The atmosphere was vibrant, and everyone was enjoying themselves, making new friends and celebrating the success of the event. 

The whole event and the food were incredible throughout and has truly ignited the spark that drives Ignite Dating forward and we can’t wait to let you know about all the exciting possibilities we have in the pipeline. So, stay tuned for those!

But the biggest highlight for both Michelle and Ellie, was meeting our New York clients and the enthusiasm that they had for their dating journey. When it comes to dating, clients often go through a range of emotions – especially if they have been out of the dating arena for a while, but thankfully Ignite Dating’s support goes far beyond simply getting them a date. Instead, they are with you every step of the way, using personality profiling, experience and intuition to provide a dating journey that will leave you feeling confident, energised, and safe.

Now, with another event over, it’s time for the team to take what they have learnt and put it into practice to further enhance the multi award-winning service that our clients receive. As a sponsor and guest speaker at the event, Michelle and the team will also be attending the Global Love Conference when it comes to London in September to further enhance their skills and knowledge. After all, by continually learning and developing our service in line with what our clients need and the ethical approach we strive for, we can be sure that we are best placed to work with you to find your perfect partner and together make steps towards the ultimate goal of a committed relationship. 

Wherever you are in the world, if you are single and looking for love but don’t know where to start, then get in touch with our team of highly qualified expert matchmakers today. Using their skills, expertise and knowledge may be just what you need to get your dating journey on the right track.

For the most part, dating can be an exhilarating and enjoyable adventure, filled with the excitement of new connections and the promise of future possibilities. However, it can also be a minefield of emotional pitfalls and avoidable dating trends – one of the most deceptive being future faking. 

The term, which has gained popularity in the dating world in recent years, refers to the actions of one partner making grand promises about the future to create a false sense of security and investment in the relationship, without any real intention of following through. But, when you’re in the initial stages of getting to know somebody, how can you be sure their actions are genuine?

Whether you are brand new to the dating world or been navigating it for a while, understanding and recognising the signs of future faking is crucial to the success of your goal of meeting a long-term, committed partner. 

So, what is future faking?

Future faking involves the action of making huge promises or speaking extensively about the future of a relationship in order to manipulate and secure a partner’s commitment. The tactic is often used by individuals who are either unsure of their own intentions or who seek to control the dynamic of the relationship and can manifest itself in various forms. Whether you’re talking about moving in together, planning far-off vacations, discussing marriage, or even naming potential future children, if these conversations are happening within a brief period of dating, there’s a chance that they could be signs of future faking. 

The emotional impact

While in the beginning it may create a euphoric sense of connection and excitement, as time passes, and the promises remain unfulfilled the deceived partner can experience confusion, insecurity, and deep hurt. This emotional impact can lead to a significant loss of trust and self-esteem, making it even more challenging for them to navigate future relationships. 

But how do you recognise the signs?

Recognising future faking can be tricky, especially when you’re caught up in the whirlwind of a new romance. However, there are some common red flags that you can watch out for:

1. Rapid advancement: if your partner is pushing for you to take the next step in your relationship, like moving in together or talking about long-term plans incredibly early on, then proceed with caution. The quick progression in a relatively brief time frame could be a sign of future faking. 
2. Inconsistency: pay close attention to whether your partner’s actions align with their goals. When you’re together, do they talk about what the future will look like or how they plan to do certain things like a proposal or moving close-by, but make no concrete steps towards it? If the answer is yes, it may be time to look a little closer as to whether their words are genuine. 
3. Too good to be true: we all know when it comes to buying something, if the offer seems too good to be true it quite often is. But why when it comes to relationships do we gloss over that fact? If the promises seem excessively idealistic or too perfect, it might be a case of future faking. 

How to protect yourself

When it comes to the early days of a relationship, it can be easy to get swept up in the moment. After all, you’ve had several dates, the chemistry is there and you have a deep connection, but it’s important to not let your heart run away with you. Here are some top tips to safeguard you from the possibility of future faking in your new relationship:

1. Take your time: allow relationships to develop naturally without rushing into major commitments. Part of the fun of dating is in those initial stages where you’re getting to know each other and enjoying each other’s company without the pressure of knowing where it is heading. 
2. Observe actions: we’ve all heard the age-old saying that “actions speak louder than words,” and dating is no different. Trust their actions over the words that they say. Consistent behaviour is a far better predictor of a person’s true intentions than lavish promises. 
3. Communicate openly: foster open communication about your expectations and concerns in your relationship. A genuine partner will respect your need for clarity and transparency about how they’re feeling and where the relationship is going. 
4. Trust your instincts: if something doesn’t feel right, don’t ignore it. Your intuition is a powerful tool when it comes to recognising manipulation, so if something doesn’t feel right in your gut, mention it, and remember the above point when it comes to the response. 

If you are a victim of future faking, it can tarnish your dating journey and have a deep emotional impact on not only that relationship but also future relationships that you enter into. But, by being aware of it and being able to recognise the signs will go a long way in protecting you and empowering you to navigate the dating world with greater discernment. 

Enlisting the help of a matchmaker can provide an added layer of security and expertise in your dating journey, helping you find a genuine, committed partner. Everybody that they introduce you to will have been ID-checked and interviewed to ensure that they are who they say they are and that their intentions are genuine when it comes to finding a partner. 

The key thing to remember is, the foundation of any successful relationship is built on trust, honesty, and mutual respect – qualities that no amount of future faking can replicate.

At Ignite Dating, your dedicated matchmaker is with you every step of the way, working with you to understand what is important to you in a partner and to make sure your dating journey is as streamlined and enjoyable as possible. They are on hand to help you navigate the trickier parts of dating, so you can relax every time you meet somebody new. Get in touch with our team of expert matchmakers today to find out how we can help you on your dating journey.

If you type dating agencies in the UK into Google, you’ll be met with an overwhelming number of possible agencies that all claim to be the ‘perfect partner’ for your dating journey. But with hundreds of agencies out there all offering slightly different services but promising the same results, how do you weed out the good from the bad and find the right agency for you?

While it can be overwhelming to go through them all, there are some subtle but powerful ways that can determine whether an agency is going to be right for you, and a major part of it lies in how they are set up.

Resources

Over the last few years more and more boutique agencies have been popping up with promises of extensive networks and resources to help you find your partner, but the problem with these is that they are usually run by one person. While you may be fooled into thinking that working with a single matchmaker will provide you with personalised 1-1 support whenever you need it, in reality it reduces the amount of time that they can spend working for you as that time needs to be spread across all their clients. 

To give you more insight to this, you can have a look on Companies House. If the agency you are considering has a low turnover, then it is often a reflection of the amount of clients, team and resources that they have to deliver service. Matchmaking, when done effectively, is a team effort and it takes a number of different people with varying skillsets and professional qualifications working together to provide a safe, enjoyable, and successful dating journey. From our copywriters to our coaches, stylists to matchmakers and everyone else in-between, our team works together to ensure that your journey is seamless from start to finish. 

Accreditation

Matchmaking goes far beyond the practice of simply matching two people together. After all, anyone can do that, but it doesn’t mean it will be successful. Instead, you should be looking at agencies that invest in industry training and relevant qualifications for their matchmakers. At Ignite Dating, our team of matchmakers all undergo qualifications with the Matchmaking Institute in addition to extensive in-house training. Add to this the fact that the agency’s founder, Michelle Begy, is Myers-Briggs and FIRO certified and a science based coach, our matchmaker Samantha Rowland-Jones is not only a qualified matchmaker but also a Myers-Briggs certified coach, along with Julie Drummond, an established and accredited dating coach. This means you can be sure that your introductions are based on recognised and psychologically backed profiling and matching techniques, as well as many years’ experience in the trade.

Compliance

Dating is a personal journey, and you want to make sure that the agency you select has stringent policies around data compliance and security of your personal information. Ignite Dating places a strong emphasis on discretion, privacy, and confidentiality. Our agency is ICO compliant and utilises the highest levels of security for its database, which means that you can be sure that any information you provide remains private and secure at all times. Our team is dedicated to upholding the highest standards of professionalism and discretion, providing our clients with peace of mind as they embark on their search for love.

Personal touch

Having a team of people around you doesn’t mean that you lose the personal touch. In fact, at Ignite Dating we pride ourselves on offering award-winning customer service to our clients from the moment that they enquire through to them finding true love. Everyone that joins, has been met face-to-face with a dating consultant, regardless of where you are based and your availability as we offer evening and weekend appointments around the UK as standard. This gives us the chance to meet you at a place and time that suits so we can get to know the softer aspects of your personality as well as what you tell us during the meeting, so that we can work with you in a way that is right for your personality and your individual needs. 

Not only that, but there are multiple touch points along the way before you’re even ready for matching. This is to ensure that you not only understand what to expect from your dating journey, but also ensure that you have everything you need to leave you feeling confident, energised, and safe throughout. At Ignite Dating, we don’t just take anyone on. Our clients have all been verified and ID-checked to ensure that they are indeed single and suitable matches for our other clients. This thorough interview process includes ID and address checks, questions around health, addictions, and criminal convictions as well as an in-depth digital footprint check. If a potential client doesn’t meet these standards, then we will decline them engaging our service  as we take the security and protection of our clients very seriously. 

Helping you make the right choice

Now these are by no means the only considerations you need to look out for when choosing a dating agency, but they do highlight the importance of reading through websites and conducting your own research carefully. We also recommend having an open conversation over a coffee with the matchmaker who will be working with you, allowing you to ask any questions and clarify anything that you are unsure of to get a better understanding of the services that they offer and how they work in order to decide which agency is right for you.

If you are single and have made that decision to join an agency, but are not sure where to start then get in touch with our friendly team today for an open and honest chat about how we can help you on your dating journey.