Dating & relationship advice from professional matchmakers.
Discover expert dating and relationship advice from the professional matchmakers at Ignite Dating. From understanding relationship compatibility and navigating modern dating trends to building confidence and finding meaningful connections, our latest insights are designed to help you approach dating with greater clarity and find lasting love.
How to build good dating habits in your twenties
You don’t need to have dating completely figured out in your twenties but it’s a good time to build positive dating habits that lead to better relationships in the future. But what does this mean and how do you build healthy dating foundations?
How to talk about a late partner when dating
Losing a partner is never easy, and when you finally decide it’s time to start dating again, this can bring up a whole range of mixed emotions. Here’s how to talk about this loss when dating.
What does it mean to be named among Spear’s Best Matchmakers 2026?
Ignite Dating’s founder, Michelle Begy, has once again been recognised as one of Spear’s Best Matchmakers for 2026. But what does it mean to be named among Spear’s Best Matchmakers 2026?
Why do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people?
Do you keep falling for emotionally unavailable people? Discover why familiar dating patterns can be hard to break, how to recognise the warning signs and what it takes to build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.
You invest in your health, so why not invest in your love life too?
We place a lot of emphasis on self-care and investing in ourselves, yet so many singles do not reserve the same level of investment for finding a meaningful relationship. Here’s why you should invest just as much in your love life.
How to define what you want from a relationship
Not sure what you really want from a relationship? Discover how to identify your needs, values and deal-breakers, learn from past experiences and approach dating with greater clarity and confidence.
Why dating feels harder when you never really switch off
If you have left work for the day, but your nervous system didn’t get the memo, you might find it harder to switch off on a date. This can make dating feel tricky, leading to overthinking, talking too quickly and leaving feeling deflated. In our latest guest post, Lasenda founder Melinda Palomino shares how to calm your nervous system and relax before a date.
The good men aren’t hiding, so why haven’t you met the right one yet?
Despite hoping there is a secret drawer full of great men, the truth is, they are already out there living their lives. The skill becomes recognising a good man, and this week our matchmakers discuss how to appreciate and connect with the right person when you meet them.
Can AI really find you love? The limits of AI in dating
AI can suggest matches, write profiles and offer dating advice, but it cannot understand chemistry, challenge your assumptions or truly know what makes two people compatible. Discover why human-led matchmaking still matters.
When should you introduce your new partner to your children?
Introducing a new partner to your children is a big relationship milestone. Discover the signs that the time may be right, what to consider first, and how to make the introduction feel comfortable for everyone involved.
Why are so many singles deleting dating apps in 2026?
Dating apps promised more choice, but many singles are tired of endless swiping, ghosting and dating fatigue. Discover why more people are deleting the apps and looking for genuine human connection instead.
Successful, independent and still single? Why dating apps aren’t working for high-achieving women
Dating apps offer endless choice, but not always meaningful compatibility. Discover why high-achieving women are turning to professional matchmaking for a more personal, selective and time-efficient approach to finding love.
The compatibility questions that actually matter
Compatibility is about far more than shared hobbies or interests. Discover the questions that reveal whether your values, goals, expectations and personalities can support a lasting relationship.
What can a good matchmaker actually do for successful women?
For successful women, the challenge isn’t meeting people; it’s meeting the right people. Working with a matchmaker can save you precious time, challenge your assumptions and help you perfect your dating strategy. In our latest blog, we share how.
What is clear-coding and how can it change your dating life?
Forget mixed signals and trying to play it cool. Clear-coding is about being upfront about what you want from the start, helping singles avoid confusion and focus on genuinely compatible relationships.
The 4 ‘Cs’ of relationship compatibility
Chemistry may spark attraction, but lasting relationships are built on much more. Discover the four essential ‘Cs’—clarity, consistency, communication and capacity—and learn how they can help you recognise genuine relationship compatibility before investing your heart.
Have dating apps actually made people more cautious when dating?
Dating apps promised to make finding love easier, but for many singles they've created uncertainty, dating fatigue and a fear of getting emotionally invested. Discover why so many people are becoming more cautious when dating and how to approach relationships with confidence again.
The biggest green flags men look for in women when dating
Red flags often dominate dating advice, but green flags matter just as much. Discover the qualities many men value most in a long-term partner and why they help create strong, lasting relationships.
Why it’s so important to choose the right matchmaker
Not all matchmaking services are created equal. Discover the questions you should ask, the qualities to look for and how choosing the right matchmaker can dramatically improve your chances of finding lasting love.
What does ‘chalance’ mean in the modern dating world?
Forget playing hard to get. 'Chalance' is the latest dating trend encouraging honesty, effort and genuine connection. Find out why more singles are embracing authenticity over dating games.